Sunday, October 30, 2011

Diwali..

             Being away from home on diwali is one of the worst things that can happen to you..It happened to many of us!! I miss being home in diwali..We have a typical way of enjoying this festive season..It all starts from shopping..Clothes for everyone!! My mother shops for all of us!! Then we go to Nalegaon..Its the time when my whole family is together! Full on Hum saath saath hai types!! We all love fire crackers(not me really) but as a team of 10 we do!!(we are team10(6 sisters and 4 brothers!!) with the addition of 2 now! but they are GENEXT) Then in the night we make this long list of fire-crackers we want to buy..Then its shopping time again!! My sweet little kid brothers go for checking the prices and find out the best prices!! Aniket and Tanmay work hard on this.. Then its time for the big bro to get into the picture and buy all those from the respective shops!! Finally we manage to get the firecrackers and now these kids insist to sleep in the same room where we keep them safely:)!! We start preparing the beds..Tanmay announces, we need to be the first in the morning.."पहिला फटाका आपला!!" That means we get up at 3!! Isn't it extremely early?? मग आई आम्हा सगळ्यांना अंघोळी घालते..तेल,  पण इथे पण एक नियम आहे, जोपर्यंत दास काकांची अंघोळ होत नाही, तोपर्यंत फटके नाहीत...मग सगळ्या गाड्या काढायच्या..So now it is 4.30AM!! Then its Firecrackers!!! We start at 4.30AM..We go on till around 6..Last one is suppose to be the special one, we insist that everyone in the home sees that..Mostly das kaka lights it..We all sit down and enjoy that one!!Now we are done..Now the next game..सगळे फटाके, कागद, आणि त्यामुळे झालेला कचरा एकत्र करायचा आणि मग एकत्रच जाळायचा!! Please don,t do it..It is dangerous!! We  do it anyways..Now it is 6.30-7AM and we have nothing to do..So every year we go to our farms..We go there and play, race etc till 9..This is the thing, when you have all the school-going kids in your house..(Well even I love to play all those games :):))..So now we are tired..Time to go back home..Where delicious brunch awaits us!!
              After this heavy brunch, It is Movie time!! Movie marathon will be more accurate word..All these usual family dramas, we have been watching for years..We watch those movies again and again..You wont believe but those CDs we bought the first time have already given up long ago!!
              Then in the evening, its again time for some action!! Rangoli near the front door.."पणत्या" all over the roof and stairs..The house looks wonderful..
                Ohh the most important thing FOOOD!! Apart from all the traditional delicacies, we have special brunch every morning!! That might be batata wada, parathas, misal..And special snacks in the evenings!! Not to miss puranpoli(My favoritest food on the earth) and everything to be made with that!!
                Lakshmipujan..It is a story in itself..The guruji will be late every time..We will be sitting all dressed up for puja waiting for him..Then he will show up from nowhere..He truly is tufaan mail..No one understands what he says..Sometimes he will skip some portions of the arati..Half of the time he will be talking on the phone..It is fun..Sadly we do not get anything new on bhaubij because we get those gifts on the first day of diwali!! :( :(
              These things, these days..I miss everything very very badly..Being alone in Diwali is really very very bad..I miss you guys..Phone/skype nothing will help..Its just being there at home..with all of you..Love you all..I am missing all that for the second time..Missing you all..

Sunday, October 23, 2011

A good news is on its way!!

                 This is what my fortune cookie says!! Fortune cookies!! I love fortune cookies..I do not know whether it reveals the fortune and all, I just know that it makes me feel good!! :) :)
               I went for lunch with my friends the other day to some Chinese Restaurant and found my fortune!! I thought this is some chinese tradition but wikipedia says that  "Fortune cookies are often served as a dessert in Chinese restaurants in the United States and some other countries, but are absent in China."
         The origin of fortune cookies is said to be in Japan.As far back as the 19th century, a cookie very similar in appearance to the modern Fortune cookie was made in Kyoto, Japan, and there is a Japanese temple tradition of random fortunes, called omikuji.
           I like fortune cookies as they have this feel good factor attached to them!! If you are having a bad day, and you get a fortune cookie that says "It will change soon" or as in my case "a good news on its way!!" you just feel good..So I am waiting for that good news now!! :):):)
          This is an example that how sometimes a simple gesture can change ones mood and sometimes outlook? I know the logical people here will say that this is just a random piece of paper and all..But I don't think so..I like the fortune cookies, the cookies and fortune both!! For some people these might act like omen..But for me, they make me smile!! and make me feel good!!

Sunday, October 16, 2011

कधीतरी..

असंच रोज संध्याकाळी बसून सुंदर सूर्यास्त बघावा..
तो मावळणारा सूर्य..आकाशाचा केशरी रंग..
हळूहळू बदलत जाणाऱ्या निळ्या रंगाच्या छटा..
आणि त्याबरोबर बदलणारे माझे विचार..

मग हळू हळू येणारी रात्र..तिच्यासोबत येणारा चंद्र..
चंद्रप्रकाशात न्हाऊन जावं..पाण्यात पाय टाकून चहा प्यावा..
मनातलं लिहावं..काहीतरी वाचावं..
काहीतरी सांगावं आणि काहीतरी ऐकावं..

उधाणणाऱ्या या वाऱ्यावर द्यावे स्वतःला झोकून..
शांतपणे फक्त वाऱ्याचच गाणं ऐकावं थांबून..
ऐकावं त्याचंही म्हणण कधीतरी..
सांगावं त्यालाही गुपित कधीतरी..

सकाळी थांबून आरामात सूर्योदय पहावा..
नवीन उमेद आणणाऱ्या त्या ताऱ्याची थोडी उर्जा घ्यावी..
त्याच्याकडून उमेद घ्यावी..
आणि त्याला संध्याकाळी भेटण्याची हमी द्यावी!!

Sunday, October 9, 2011

दसरा

          दसरा..I miss being home!! सकाळ मधले सीमोल्लंघनाचा अर्थ नव्याने समजावून देणारे लेख, गाडगीळान्कडची गर्दी(खरच सगळं जग तिथे सोन घ्यायला आलेलं असतं), पाटीवर काढलेली सरस्वती, शस्त्रपूजेसाठी काढलेलं सगळं सामान(घुंगरू, वाद्य, आवडतं पेन, पाटी, पुस्तकं,nunchaku)...संध्याकाळी जोशी काका, प्रतिभा मावशी, फडके काका,शेजारच्या काकू,  मुंढे काकूंकडे जाऊन सोनं देऊन यायच आणि भरपूर गप्पा पण मारून यायच्या..I am missing all that..
          दसरा, ज्या दिवशी रामाने रावणावर विजय मिळवला, दुर्गा मातेने महिषासुरावर विजय मिळवला, पांडवांनी अज्ञातवास संपवला असा साडेतीन मुहूर्तांपैकी एक मुहूर्त..दसर्याच्या किंवा विजया दशमीच्या प्रत्येक गोष्टीमागे एक समान धागा आहे, तो म्हणजे दुष्ट प्रवृत्ती, वाईट गोष्टींवर मिळवलेला विजय..दसऱ्याला सीमोल्लंघन करण्याची सुद्धा पद्धत आहे...
        रावणाची दहा तोंडं म्हणजे खरंतर आपल्यामध्ये असलेल्या १० वाईट गोष्टी आहेत..रामाने रावणावर विजय मिळवला म्हणजे त्याच्या या १० वाईट गोष्टींचा (क्रोध, मोह, लोभ, मद, मत्सर इत्यादी) नाश केला..रामाचा रावणावर विजय आपल्याला ह्या दृष्टीकोनातून सुद्धा बघता येईल..
         याच दसऱ्याच्या मुहूर्तावर दुर्गा मातेने महिषासुराचा वध करून, आणि म्हणूनच आपण देवीला महिषासुरमर्दिनी असं म्हणतो..नऊ दिवस चाललेलं ते युद्ध अश्विन शुक्ल दशमीला संपलं म्हणून हि विजया दशमी..
         मला सगळ्यात महत्वाचं वाटत ते सीमोल्लंघन..समासच सोडवायचा झाला तर सीमेचं उल्लंघन..हि सीमा भौगोलिकच असायला हवी असंही नाही..कारण त्यांचं उल्लंघन मुहूर्त बघून करणं थोडसं अवघड आहे..;);) कदाचित आपणच आपल्यासाठी निर्माण केलेल्या सीमा असतील या..सीमा आपण आपल्या विचारांवर लादलेल्या..सीमा आपण आपल्या कार्यक्षमतेवर आखलेल्या..सीमा आपण आपल्या सामाजिक वर्तुळावर ठेवलेल्या..सीमा आपण स्वतःवर , स्वतःच्या क्षमतेवर आखलेल्या(मी फक्त ३ मैल पळू शकते असं ठरवण हि सुद्धा सीमाच आहे ना!!)..याच सीमांचं उल्लंघन करणं, त्यांच्या पलीकडे जाऊन काहीतरी करणं म्हणजे सीमोल्लंघन..रोजच्या पेक्षा आज एखादा मैल जास्त पळणं, नेहमीपेक्षा वेगळ्या लोकांशी बोलणं, स्वतःवर स्वतःच लादलेली limitations काढण, मी हे सुद्धा करू शकते याचा अनुभव घेणं म्हणजेच सीमोल्लंघन आहे माझ्या दृष्टीने..

Sunday, October 2, 2011

Sometimes Its Just Time!!

          I have been thinking about it for sometime now..Yes Sometiemes its just time. Sometimes I really feel like knowing the future, what is in there for me? How my life is going to be? Am I following the right path to my desired destination??
       Then I remembered this example from "the secret". If one wants to travel from lets say Dallas to San Francisco!! I do not need to see the whole 1731 miles at the beginning. What one need to know is the next 10 feet the headlight of the car can show!! So 10 feet at a time and still you will reach San Francisco. Isnt it similar for life as well? One day at a time or may be one second at a time and the year passes!!
       Sometimes I wish , I could fast forward my life, Just to know whats in there for me? Good we can not fast forward the life!! Otherwise there are no surprises, no shocks...
       Any phase, may it be a good one, bad one, it will pass..It reminds me of the famous sentence from "Mahabharat(the series)".. "I am time, I travel at my own speed"..
       We can not force things to happen quicker, everything happens at its own pace!! Everything happens at the right time..Sometimes we do not have control over it but sometimes we do..
        One of my friends had a perfect status message,"Someday Everything will make a perfect sense. So for now, laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason."
         Life happens..Things happen..Everything happens at the right time..So lets not even attempt to see the future because that will ruin all the surprises the life has for us!!So for now, lets enjoy the phase which we are in..Because even this is not going to forever, neither we can fast forward it nor we can life happens, at its own pace, it takes its own time, for now lets indulge in the present as Sometimes Its Just Time!!